Is a HTT right for us? And a few other ??'s

The tanks on our ROO 23SS IIRC were 30 gals each or thereabouts. Since it's highly unlikely that you're going to completely fill the black tank over a 3 or 4 day trip, you can get a small dishpan to fit in your sink and then dump that water into the black tank when dishwashing is done. The black tank usually needs more liquids that normal use puts in anyway, this might gain your DW an extra shower or two. Re the DD, if the weather is good and you feel comfortable doing this, could you put her in a cute little bathing suit and do her shower at the outside shower....sort of making it her little spot for this fun?? And they do make surrounds for outside showers if that sounds better to you. And, probably 99% of us would admit to skipping a day....or two....without a real shower when camping. Absolutely, the blue tote will be a huge help. Even with conservation and just 2 of us, we can pretty easily get a Friday - Sunday trip with no problem. It's when we toss Thursday into the mix that we run into trouble, so the blue tote has become part of our regular packing and DH really doesn't mind just including it as part of his Saturday morning duties....takes all of about 15 minutes from start to finish. Also, agree on the Oxygenics Spa shower head.....on our new TT we have a large garden shower so DH can actually enjoy a real shower rather than going to the shower house....that was his birthday present last week and he was crazy about it. Weird gift for a man, but I knew he'd love it. Blue tote for sure!!