Finally got a chance to fill the truck with diesel and run the camper on the truck over the scales. No real surprise but with all the extras installed (batteries, tie downs, fast guns, solar, most of our camping/traveling supplies) here are the weights for those who care about such things:
Front axle - 5,360
Rear axle - 6,780
Gross - 12,140
Truck GVWR is 11,500 so we are 640 pounds over GVWR but within both the front and rear GAWR of 6,000 and 7,000. Upper stable loads and Sumo springs have made handling a non-issue. Truck sits level.
I am pretty pleased with where we have ended up.