In the end I opted for a
$4995 - 2002 Lance 815 (wet weight 1879#) &
$9500 - 2002 Chevy Silverado 2500 SRW (payload per sticker = 2842#)(101k miles)
They are both in great shape and I found them on craigslist. The sellers were both wonderful people and I enjoyed purchasing from them a million times more than at a dealer. I feel like the camper and truck have everything I need and nothing I don't. The camper is tiny, but certainly larger than our tent and has a bathroom and shower. No AC, but we can ad later as needed. The truck has an 8.1L Vortec engine (Allison transmission) which may be more than I need, but I'm sure we'll enjoy it on the hills.
We are cleaning things up and packing and should be out of here in a couple of days.
I was bowled over by the wonderful help I received on the forums - some people even searched the camper/trucks ads and sent me their great finds!
If I meet more truck campers like you when I'm out traveling, I'm sure we'll be loving this sport for years to come.
Happy Camping!