Have everybody within 200 feet of you move from their sites. If there is not a 40x40 pad within 20 ft of your trailer you will have to bring a bulldozer in to level a pad. Then call a crane company and set up the lift. I would recommend having the crane set the trailer on better solid ground. Hook to your truck and it's done, that easy. I don't know why your worrying. I was the same as you with worrying. Now that I can drink a fifth of Crown Royal I don't worry near as much. Try it, don't except to be good at it right away. You will have to give it 100%. Hope this put a smile on your face for your birthday.