Just something to consider.
We had a 33' bunkhouse for about six years. When we got it our sons were very small. Now they are 11 and 6 and growing like weeds.
We use our coach about the same (60 + nights) as you. Three x a year for one week vacations and then multiple weekend trips for baseball tournaments.
We looked at every bunkhouse combo known to man at the time and liked quite a few but it wasn't going to work for more than a few years with kids getting bigger and friends starting to go. The fold down bunk models beds won't work for a giant kid, we tried it.
We ended up getting the coach in my signature. The front living room set up has worked great for us and I'm so glad we did it. It takes two minutes to throw down 4 or five sleeping bags. For longer trips the couches fold out and quickly become air beds. The coach came with a jack knife sofa on one side. I called the couch manufacturer and bought another fold out directly from them and had it shipped to the house. Less expensive and easy to put in.
The front storage cabinets easily fit clothes, travel bags and all their gear. We put the sleeping bags in the bathroom closet. It takes a grand total of five minutes to clean the area up for more usable space.
Our coach has everything you listed with the exception of an outdoor kitchen. There may be other front living room models that have everything your looking for.
DW and two boys
2019 Grand Design Momentum 397M
2020 Ram 3500 DRW