Well, I will see how this works. Presently, you have only the high kitchen switch. If you can get two three way switches, then you could use either switch to control the kitchen lights by using a piece of 3-wire between the two new switches. If you don't have 3-wire then use two pieces of 2-wire. The extra wire is needed to bring the switched leg back to the feed to the light.
For the living room it's pretty simple too. You need a four way switch between the two three way switches. The new switch is a four way and it's function is to either run power straight, or in an X through the switch. Disconnect the wire from the upper switch, and run it to the four way, then run a short length of 3 way from the new four way to the upper three way.
There are many sites to visually show you how this works, just google three way and four way light switches.
Mike
2012 Winnebago Impulse Silver 26QP
2005 16.6 Double Eagle
2018 Jeep Wrangler JK
previously Snowbird Campers,
Triple E Motorhome and Fifth Wheel