I think if I were driving in wind conditions triggering the stabilty system, I would get off the road and wait out the weather. I've done it for slick road condtions, without knowing just how slick. ESA (what it was called on the wife's Accord) started triggering as we moved slowly through some worsening icy road conditions, so I creeped to an exit and managed to get to a motel parking lot. Learned that a surface slick enough to activate ESA at low speed was to slick to stand on, we worked our way in hanging onto walls and leaning on the suitcase we were skiding across the ice.
Those must have been some interesting winds.