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critternut
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Hello all, newbie Canuck just joined this weekend. After tons of research, test-drives and formal inspections, I've finally bought a wee Class B for myself. Any constructive advice for a woman travelling solo? I've heard everything from "you're brave/insane" to "stay in Canada only". I am pushing 50, have common sense and mechanical aptitude, so I don't see what the big deal is. I've chosen Good Sam over CAA(AAA), so that's a start. (A reminder that guns are out of the question here.) Thanks to all!
Go while you can, because you can.
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ADogsLife
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Hello, I'm turning 60 this year and have traveled with the army, family, friends and a partner but never alone. Now I just now got an RPod and can't wait to hit the road with my 2 fluffy friends and not have to answer anyone. Just free!!!!

pitch
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As usual folks here are going to extremes.
Common sense,stay out of city centers, keep you vehicle fueled up so you don't need gas in a sketchy area. While you are sleeping keep the ignition key in the ignition. No fumbling and searching in an emergency. If possible always back into a parking area facing out. Do not overnight in a pinch or limited maneuverability area.
In the infitisimal chance that you are attacked, remember you are driving a 6000# battering ram weapon, use it if there is no other recourse. You can drive with flat tires and dash warning lights to save your life.
Get yourself a laptop and a hot spot. Couple hours before you stop pick an area on google maps,go to street view and check out the surrounding area. Look for a couple of clear direct escape routes to a populated area.

I don't know where some Canadians get the ideas the do. In almost 60 years of life in the northeast US I have never been a victim or even a witness to violent crime.
Some of us may be a bit clannish and scruffy around the edges, but I have met some sketchy Canadians also.

100ton
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100ton wrote:
I predict this will be the last post on this topic. If not, I'll get the popcorn. ๐Ÿ™‚

Take it easy everyone.


Okay, so I was wrong. That's a first for me. :B
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Squonk61
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Of course I carried a weapon on active duty. Didn't always have the bullets, tho.

100ton
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I predict this will be the last post on this topic. If not, I'll get the popcorn. ๐Ÿ™‚

Take it easy everyone.
'05 Ford F250 Crew Cab, PSD, 4X4, Short Bed, Camper & Tow Package, Limited Slip Differential
'05 CrossRoads, Cruiser 29RK
PullRite 16K SuperGlide

nitrohorse
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wintersun wrote:
It would be more sane to have women traveling alone comment on this question and not a bunch of white males who have the knee jerk reaction of "go buy a gun".

With dogs the alpha aspect is an issue only if the dog is male and the owner/master is male as well. If the owner is a female the alpha dog will protect his property and do so far more aggressively than if his owner is a female. I saw it happen many times with girl friends with male dogs. A couple even chewed up my clothes to let me know they did not approve of a new male into their home. A friend would stay over at his then girl friend's (now his wife) place and her male cat would spray his pillow. It is a guy thing.

A dog is also a good companion for anyone spending a lot of time alone regardless of any protection. In most cases having an alarm dog that barks is all that is needed and little dogs tend to bark a lot more at any little noise.


"White males" is a heck of a way to make your point, isn't it? I'm not sure you should be giving any type of advice.

wintersun
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It would be more sane to have women traveling alone comment on this question and not a bunch of white males who have the knee jerk reaction of "go buy a gun".

With dogs the alpha aspect is an issue only if the dog is male and the owner/master is male as well. If the owner is a female the alpha dog will protect his property and do so far more aggressively than if his owner is a female. I saw it happen many times with girl friends with male dogs. A couple even chewed up my clothes to let me know they did not approve of a new male into their home. A friend would stay over at his then girl friend's (now his wife) place and her male cat would spray his pillow. It is a guy thing.

A dog is also a good companion for anyone spending a lot of time alone regardless of any protection. In most cases having an alarm dog that barks is all that is needed and little dogs tend to bark a lot more at any little noise.

nitrohorse
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Squonk61 wrote:
I just completed a 3000 mile round trip in my TT. The advice on this site gave me a lot of confidence in using my equipment. I stayed overnight at rest areas on the highways alongside truckers and felt very safe. Very friendly guys and never felt threatened. I have three corgis that can make quite a racket! I'm former USMC and can handle weapons easily but choose not to because they can easily be taken away and used against me. Trust instincts-if it didn't feel safe, move along. On the first night the TT next door made pancakes for everyone. My trip was from VT to Iowa and all highway, no campgrounds except at destination. Anybody thinking of dogs for protection need to understand pack behavior to insure the human is alpha. My beta dog is the oldest female, followed by a male and female. They all have a strong instinct to protect the pack, which developed over time with training and consistency. They all know their place in line and are happier when it's reinforced. There is a ton of info on,how to do this. An Akita I had made me learn fast and my dogs are much happier now and in control.
Common sense and instincts. And please no guns.

I hope the Marines did not make you carry a gun during your active service.

Squonk61
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I just completed a 3000 mile round trip in my TT. The advice on this site gave me a lot of confidence in using my equipment. I stayed overnight at rest areas on the highways alongside truckers and felt very safe. Very friendly guys and never felt threatened. I have three corgis that can make quite a racket! I'm former USMC and can handle weapons easily but choose not to because they can easily be taken away and used against me. Trust instincts-if it didn't feel safe, move along. On the first night the TT next door made pancakes for everyone. My trip was from VT to Iowa and all highway, no campgrounds except at destination. Anybody thinking of dogs for protection need to understand pack behavior to insure the human is alpha. My beta dog is the oldest female, followed by a male and female. They all have a strong instinct to protect the pack, which developed over time with training and consistency. They all know their place in line and are happier when it's reinforced. There is a ton of info on,how to do this. An Akita I had made me learn fast and my dogs are much happier now and in control.
Common sense and instincts. And please no guns.

catkins
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There are thousands of women who travel on their own. Be smart, sbe safe and you will enjoy the road. Check out different groups to see which one might be to your liking. RVingwomen.org is all about women supporting other women Rvers. Chapters all over the US. There is even chapter for Full timers or Solo women travelers. Whatever you do, enjoy the road and the wonderful adventures ahead of you! Enjoy the ride.

scroller95969
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Might want to check out RVSUE's blog: http://rvsueandcrew.net/. She has been traveling alone for a couple of years now and has a lot of good information.
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joegray
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Nitrohorse:

No offence was taken and no apology is required. The points you made were valid and true. My wife and I enjoy traveling in the US. So far it's only been the southwest,, one of these years we plan to do the east coast. I feel as safe in your country as I do my own. Happy Camping.

nitrohorse
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joegray wrote:
Good points Nitrohorse...... All Canadians DO NOT feel like this.
Mabey the other member should stop watching US news and start watching more Canadian news from Toronto and Vancouver. We have shootings and killings almost everyday.
I think on a per capita basis,,, US has 250 millon plus people, Canada has 30 million plus people, and you will find the amount of guns per capita almost equal.
Most Canadians don't like to think about, this because they are too busy hideing their heads in the sand.


Joegray,
I apologize as it was never my intent to attack our northern neighbors, but I took the previous posters comments about America, guns, and the NRA as offensive.
Again, my apology as the folks from Canada are great people.

joegray
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Good points Nitrohorse...... All Canadians DO NOT feel like this.
Mabey the other member should stop watching US news and start watching more Canadian news from Toronto and Vancouver. We have shootings and killings almost everyday.
I think on a per capita basis,,, US has 250 millon plus people, Canada has 30 million plus people, and you will find the amount of guns per capita almost equal.
Most Canadians don't like to think about, this because they are too busy hideing their heads in the sand.