Wiring in RV parks has to comply with NEC article 551. Load/demand and demand factors for pedestals is covered in
article 551.73 This is for RV parks. The first recept. requires a 100 percent demand factor, two is 90 percent and so on. A 50 amp recept. has a 9600 watt demand, but this only in an RV park. A pedestal (for one site) with a 30 and 50 amp recept. would have a demand based on the 50 amp recept. only, not both. The NEC is woefully behind on RV demand today due to all the 50 amp RVs that people are buying. Only 20 percent of an RV park is required to have 50 amp pedestals. Voltage drop is a common problem as a result.
Providing receptacles for RVs in a residential dwelling is different and there are no specific rules for RV receptacle demand or multiple RV recepts. AFAIK, NEC article 220 would be used (and possibly one of the other articles?) and a load calculation (for main panel/service) has to be based on the amp rating of the load service (ie., no reduction allowed for demand factor). For a 50 amp recept., this would mean a demand of 12,000 watts. This can have a big impact on the size of a main panel (if complying with code). A 30 amp recept. at a home is usually not an issue due to the smaller 3600 watt demand. I am not sure if there an allowable demand factor reduction for multiple RV recepts. when the total load of them exceeds a certain KW amount (could be 10KW?).
Demand factor for a 30 + 50 amp pedestal may very well have to be based on 3600 + 12,000 watts regardless of how low you think the actual demand in the RVs will be. This can result in a lot of cost for the copper for the feeder cable and some or which will not be utilized (due to unbalanced load). Being able to use the 30 and 50 amp recepts. in a pedestal is not the issue, it's the feeder and beaker size in the house panel that is.
You do not have to use an RV park type pedestal. You can use a standard raintight PVC box and the correct RV configuration recept. and mount them on a wood post. Should also use a disconnect switch at the recepts. in this case (motor/HP rated).
Sorry, but "your" electrical engineer is off-base. You need to hire either an engineer or qualified electrician to do the demand calculations and size everything. I think you should think carefully how much power you actually need on the 50 amp recept. while parked at home. Do you really need two ACs, or even one? What other higher demand appliances do you think will also be running in addition to AC units? It might be that a 30 amp, 120 volt recept. will be okay or maybe install a 2P-30 amp (240V) breaker in the house panel instead of 2P-50A. Don't forget to consider voltage drop from the house panel all the way to the panel inside the RVs. I'm an EE but not only have I been retired too long and not on top of things anymore, I was raised on the CEC not NEC. But I do know enough about the NEC and RV requirements that you need to hire the right electrical expert on this. There is also the Mike Holt electrical forum if you want to ask experts there. You don't want to end up making costly errors and you need to ensure it's a safe installation.