Which Michelin Tire? Defender LTX M/S or LTX Winter

I put Defender tires on my minivan and do not like them. They are a very hard ride; the tread is actually hard, which gives it the high mileage rating. Supposed to go to 90K miles.

I've also had one that was very difficult to balance. Took the 4th try at a good tire shop.

That said, they handle reasonably well and are holding up as advertised.