So it's been a couple of months and here is what has happened.
First of all we went back to the dealer within a couple days and they actually agreed to cancel the contract, so we took the truck back and started over.
We ended up getting a Ram3500 Crew Cab DRW, long bed Laramie with 4:10 rear and a 5,704# payload. We also purchased our 1st 5er which is a 2019 Coachmen Chaparral 11,000 GVWR.
We don't even know it's back there, and it's comforting to know when we trade up, we have more than enough truck to pull a bigger heavier RV.
I learned a big lesson.
Just wanted to update.