We stayed at rainbow Springs State Park in Florida for a week from December 20th to 27th. On the 27th Saturday we began to disconnect and put away some things prior to leaving before the 1 pm check...
Another camper asking when you plan to leave is not rude, nor is watching to see when you leave. Seems to me that staying late, as you did for no reason, and the camp host's behavior, is extremely rude. You and the camp host are the guilty ones.