Tither...Although I am not familiar with your hydraulic system for your slide operation, I'd just like to offer some "general" thoughts.
In many hydraulic systems they have installed "flow control" that do just that, control the flow of the fluid, and thus regulate the speed of the cylinder. Assume for a moment the cylinder is in the retracted position. To make it extend forward, pressure is applied to the end of the cylinder ( not the rod end)and fluid tries to flow in. However, for the cylinder to extend, fluid must exit out of the other end. The flow is regulated by the flow control device at each end of the cylinder, or at the other end of each fluid line.( Not sure of your setup ) Opening will make the cylinder move more quickly and closing will make it go slower. No two cylinders will react the same, and if not regulated, will make one go faster than the other. Take a good look at your system, read "the book", and make only small adjustments as you go.
Hope that helps, at least that's how it should work.