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rwj146
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Sep 02, 2015

Veternarians

In April of this year I had to have my elderly cat euthanized. Aside from the feeling of loss from Buddy dying I was not happy with the vet or his new partner and the way I felt rushed thru the entire procedure.

I said nothing, but it has bothered me for awhile and I passed my dislike on to my kids and neighbors. Last week on Facebook I got a request to review them. I did. From the waiting 45 minutes in the exam room after they took Buddy to be checked out with no one coming to let me (us, I had a friend with me) know what was going on. Finally a tech comes in followed by someone I presume was the vet. She (the vet) never introduced herself, all she did was read from his chart what was wrong and told me she could give him a few more months but it would be painful to him. And left.


I mentioned that when I made the decision to go ahead and let him go, this told to the tech, the vet was long gone. She went and got my bill and asked for my payment method. I had been going to this vet or at least the original vet for 15 years, but I suppose it's best to collect upfront. So I gave her my card and she came back and told me she had saved me some money because they didn't charge me for the pedicure they gave him. I had never in all my visits gotten him a pedicure and this was the last thing on my mind that day.

After the bill was payed the shot was given and Buddy was gone. Then for 10 minutes I was asked about burial,different costs of cremation and such.

I put all of this and more detail in my review on Facebook along with one star. Yesterday I got a response on Facebook and today a call from my old vet. I told him he can delete the review if he wants but what I typed was fact.

I understand it's a business but if they wanted a review, take the good with the bad.

Still miss my old cat and still think the way this vet handled his death was poorly done.

End of rant.

Travel Safe.

27 Replies

  • Naio's avatar
    Naio
    Explorer II
    I'm so sorry that their callous attitude made your hard time worse.

    In the city where my S&B is, there is a vet whose entire practice consists of housecall euthanasia. I know, this sounds really weird. But she is a super nice lady. She is never in a hurry, lets you and your pet take your time to say goodbye. The process is gentle and unstressful for the animal. It's the best way I have ever seen.
  • Know your vets...

    Some are good for nail trimming. Shots. Advice on diet foods.

    Others are good for very difficult surgeries, weird diagnoses, etc.

    You cant always tell them apart until the rubber hits the road and you have something bad happen to your pet.

    When you hear of someone having a very good outcome from something difficult, ask the name of the vet and write it down. You will need it someday. And it may be the difference between them telling you to put ur pet down and you taking him home for another ten years.

    groundhog
  • I'm a veterinarian and I would have rated (ranted) just as you did. There is no excuse for the lack of communication. The situation was obviously filled with tension and stress and the way it was handled only made it worse.

    Sorry for your loss.

    Doug, DVM
  • I agree with the other posters - putting both of my elderly dogs down was done with gentle love towards the pet and myself. EVERYONE was sympathetic; and the whole process was handled as the death of a dearly beloved should be. If I had wanted to sit and stroke the fur for an hour, they would have let me.

    Sorry such a painful decision was handled in such a "businesslike" manner.
  • First, sorry for your loss... the loss of your baby is hard enough without the inconsiderate way it was handled. When I had to put my spaniel down in January, it was with a gentle, caring attitude and with dignity. I would have done the same thing you did. Maybe the doctor will review his practice.
  • Sorry for your loss, it's never easy. I would have given the same rating.

    When my wife's 16 yo American Eskimo passed, it was in her arms, not at the vet. It was at night, and we called the night time number. The vet returned from a function he was attending at 9 pm to help us out. He was kind and understanding. This vet has a customer for life.
  • As a lifetime owner of pets, and lots of dealings with vets, I DO believe you have a valid complaint. If they don't like it, they can change their procedures. I'm so sorry for the loss of your pet....that's so hard.

    BTW -- we are in a town other than our longtime vet's town....took our cat in for an emergency. We were treated as if we'd been coming to them for 100 yrs....I'd say there is something seriously wrong with the clinic and maybe the old vet will do some checking.

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