Not meaning to be a smart A, we have been there and went thru that. You can't change the ignorance of those who do not care or pay attention to others in life/the world. They see only their own pleasure/satisfaction and others can suffer so they can enjoy. That is why the world is changing at a rate of stupidity that it is, cast them off for bad up-bringing (bad parents/time outs). Spare the rod, spare the child rule. It happens here in the South also. Makes me understand why I love living out in the middle of nowhere.