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JW_of_Opechee_S's avatar
Jul 04, 2014

Changing Times for Us

We have been snowbirds for two years now as we would spend 3 months in Florida and then me being a contractor would come home and work from April to Thanksgiving. I have read the full timers forum and both the DW and I realize that we need to have a base home but I will not be taking on anymore work after this winter. We started giving away things that we don't use any longer and will put the house on the market when we come back next spring. We have had an offer on a condo on a lake in NH accepted and will have a place to move to that won't require that I have to worry about care when we leave it to go camping.
To others out there that think full timing is the perfect thing, I just think that it needs a lot of thought as to who you are and the lifestyle you really enjoy. Also need to remember that health can change in an instant and the spouse would have to deal with a transition he or she may not be prepared for. Maybe I just think forward too much but for me I want to travel and enjoy knowing that the DW will be secure no matter what the situation. Also will be moving closer to our daughter and family in NH.:):)

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  • I have been helping my mom make all sorts of decisions on things to get her hose ready for sale. The last 2 years my dad's health got worse and worse, and she had no time to spend on maintenance and upkeep other than very basics. This past year has really helped solidify my decision to sell my house, RV full-time for a few years, and settle in an apt when I can't travel safely any longer.

    I know some think I should prepare to purchase a house or condo to reinvest from selling current house, but I can't see burdening my children with having to try to sell a house or condo when I am gone. I will rent somewhere so that I don't have financial responsibility of maintenance. I have watched a friend struggle to sell her mom's house... she has spent two years working on the house to get it ready to sale and now waiting on it to sell. her BIL pushes her to do things his way (her sister has Alzheimer's and is beyond input) but expects her to sell it immediately for the greatest amount possible, to help with sister's medical bills. It has just about stressed her completely out.
  • We're not full timing it, but our situation is similar. Both newly retired, we just moved from our 2 story + basement home of 25+ years to a rambler without basement up here on the island 40 miles away. Love it. We got rid of a lot of "stuff": I gave away stuff to the kids, and I averaged a trip to the local Value Village to donate stuff at least once a week and a run to the dump at least once a month for the past 6 months. Now that we're in our new home I can see we probably still have too much stuff so I'll continue getting rid of it. By the time you reach our age we've accumulated a lot of stuff and junk that we just do not need anymore.
  • Sounds like you have plans A, B, and C in order. I have told my wife that if I go first, dump the house and head for a condo or apartment. It is amazing how much there is to do around here and if its not kept up the value of the property starts going down.
  • Nothing wrong with planning ahead,my wife and I will be spending the weekend getting rid of stuff that we don't need.Planning on selling the house in 2 years and moving out west.After last winter it made the decision easier. Best of luck in your moving.