I have after market torsion keys in the front to level the truck, which is why I choose the 5100's. I am well aware shocks do not lift, I was confused as to why it sat level with 400 lbs of water in the front fresh water tank, and then 2 weeks later, with an empty tank, it sagged. I will indeed get the trailer out, possibly this weekend, and mess around with Equalizer WD hitch. I just need to do a little more research to figure out which part I adjust first, the brackets on the TT, or on the hitch itself. There is no doubt that I need new shocks, it still bounces, without the trailer.
Thanks again for all the advise. I will post results for future newbs.