What does the stickers show on your drivers door? GVWR, front and rear GAWR)
I had a 97 F150 with the 5.4 and 3.55's and towed a #5000 GVWR 22' total length TT for many years, but with just the 4 speed and a 230hp/330tq 5.4, it was in 2nd gear on any grade with that TT.
Heck, even not towing, it would bog down on grades..
I was once reduced to 1st gear, foot to the floor, going 25mph up a huge grade that's in my neighborhood (speed limit 35mph on that road) when I had to slow down for traffic one time. It's only about a mile, but it killed my 5.4...
Towing on the flats, 3rd gear only (only 4th on the down hills)
High trans temps, high coolant temps on the grades.. I'd suggest getting real gauges for those temps...
I had a dual pod A piller gauge mount with temp and trans gauges on the 97.
It only had a #6250 GVWR and I don't think it had a "payload" sticker on that year, but it was not much!
I weighed and I was a good #500 over GVWR and just a 'tad' over the rear axle rating, but I did have some 'upgraded' suspension and tires, but technically, it was still overweight... Towed that TT for over 12 years and the truck had 255,000 miles on it without any major repair on the drive train. Just regular maintenance.
It towed it just fine.. No sway, got a solid 9-10mpg while towing.. Just had no power.
I towed that #5000 TT with the new 13 F150 and it was night and day! OMG... I was "King of the towing world" with that combo!
Got myself a #7000 GVWR 26' TT for the 13... Well, I felt it and needed to make some changes (fuel octane rating mostly, but also some suspension and tire updates) to get the same comfortable and towing performance I expect..
Anyway, good luck with any grades with the 4.6... Expect high revs, slow speed and foot to the floor on the grades.. :)
Mitch
