So here's how it went. I didn't pull the trigger on the Ford. Yes, it felt faster and was more quiet. However, we both agree that the cab seems more confined and the seats not as comfortable. The wife likes the cab layout better on the Ram, too. We tried keeping it apples to apples driving a tradesman and an XLT. The Ford is nice for sure, and I'm shocked to write this, but I really am thinking of going Ram. Have I mentioned that Cummins? That thing speaks to me.
Monday I'll call my Ram sales guy and see what he can do. If it goes poorly, I still have the Ford guy's number.