With all due respect, as an electrical engineer, I have to say that your electrician does not know what he is talking about in regards to either the open neutral or the receptacle quality.
The receptacles are used exclusively throughout the RV and manufactured home industry. They carry a safety certification. They are completely safe if properly installed and the wires are terminated correctly. If someone is not used to them and does not know how to properly terminate the wires on them, I could see them being frustrated with them. They're perfectly safe and they are very easy to install if you know what to do. In fact, they're easier to install than one in a house because there's no outlet box and wire count to deal with.
The only thing I don't like about these receptacles is that the batt insulation in the walls usually gets compromised. The wires and devices push the insulation towards the outside wall and thus leaves a void in the wall and compressed insulation, both resulting in substantially reduced R-value in those places.
The only way an open neutral could be causing your problem is if it is in your house panel. Then you'd have problems in your house as well. An open neutral inside your RV will not cause the voltage to rise like that. In your RV, an open neutral will result in lower voltage, and right down to zero. Here's a good read:
RV open neutral info.As I said earlier, if you have 190 volts inside your RV, then anything plugged in and "on" will be damaged. Replacing and repairing these is not cheap, as in many hundreds of $$. Some info. on what happens when you plug into 220 volts on these FR threads:
Fried components inside RV Plugged into wrong voltage You haven't stated if you used a 30 to 15 amp adapter at the end of your 30 amp cord to plug into an ordinary 15 amp recept. or extension cord, or if you plugged into a welder or dryer receptacle or made up a new dedicated receptacle to plug into. Many people, including some electricians have made the mistake of modifying a welder or dryer outlet to run a 30 amp RV service and then the damage happens... I've read about some electricians who have wired up a correct 30 amp RV receptacle (TT_30R) to 220 volts assuming that all RVs run on 220 volts.
I hope you get to the bottom of this and hopefully don't have much or any damage to deal with.