If I came across a bit snarky it was not intentional. There is compromise in everything, the lifestyle systems trade size for loudness and accurate response. Installed in a coach is the perfect application for these systems, and Bose does squeeze an awful lot out of their size with sound shaping and such, but even Bose can't rewrite physics :), drivers of a certain size can only displace a certain amount of air, and small enclosures will resonate in certain ways. That is what you ran into with the single cubes. At that point the sound becomes compressed, and if bass module still has some volume left it will start over riding the wide range drivers.
From what I can tell the main difference between the Lifestyle 8 and 50 is the single vs dual cubes, the bass module looks the same. If you primarily use your bedroom system and have the mounting locations you could try swapping the single and dual cubes. Or since the front channels are used the most, swap the 2 single front left and right with the dual surround channels giving dual cubes for the front on both systems, and singles for surround on both. You could also hunt Craig's List or ebay for a set of dual cubes.
You may already know, the reason you can't use the dish remote to control the Bose system is because the lifestyle systems us RF (Radio Frequency) instead of IR (Infra Red) The advantage is RF can be used anywhere and does not have to be pointed at the control box, which leads to a more positive and user friendly experience. Downside is you have to use the provided remote. I have read the latest versions of the lifestyle systems now have both RF and IR to allow use of universal remotes.
A lot of the disdain I see for Bose comes mainly from the price to performance aspect, you can buy a system that out performs for less money. However as someone who loves his iPhone, I see both sides. I am an audio junky, I love spending time tweaking my equipment, listening to different speakers, different DACs listening for nuances in recordings etc., so it is easy for me to say "XYZ receiver and speakers is better and cost less" (and it will take you a month to configure!) When it comes to my iPhone, I like the style, the simplicity, and the fact that it just works. I don't want to have to mess with it. Some of my friends like to tinker with their phones and operating systems, and I hear about how apple is a follower, droid is faster, they have an sd slot yada yada, but I like the overall experience that apple provides with the iPhone. What many Bose detractors don't realize is that is the way I see my iPhone is the same way most of the public sees Bose. They like the style, simplicity, and user friendliness. They don't want to have to mess with things, they just want it to work, and have the company stand behind it.
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