Advice from current or past Livin Lite owners, similar TTs

No argument, thanks for your comments. Yes, with my very limited knowledge, I would think a WD hitch would be best, and this is indeed in conflict with Honda, so I basically do not know what to do at this point.

Hopefully I will get some Ridgeline owner input, or be able to see if my Honda dealer can hook me up with Ridgeline owners who are towing.

I may even see if the service manager can get a question to the engineers.

thank you for your thoughts.