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Mondooker
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Dec 23, 2015

I say “Yes lets go” my wife says “not so fast Sparky”!

For a number of years I’ve been reading up and doing my do-diligence on motorhomes and the motorhome life. Any time I come upon an interesting article I read it to my wife so she learns as I do. I’ve also shown her motorhome brochures on Diesel Pushers in the 32 to 36 foot range. She likes the look of the motorhomes and all they offer but is not sure its for her.

There seems to be two reoccurring themes and both have to do with her being a home body! We enjoy travel and enjoy each others company and have always enjoyed “road trips” together. Her concern is an extended period of time (summer months) in something that isn’t home. The concern being that even as nice as motorhomes are you could not make one homey!

I don’t completely get that but then again I was never a mother and had the responsibility of making a house a home. And frankly she’s very good at it! But there is one thing I do know and that is there are those out there reading this who know exactly what I’m talking about and I’d love hearing from you!

As a sidebar, I was looking at the Thor website last evening and happened to click on the “Diesel Club” video. Its funny how things hit you sometimes because I was watching the video and saw that 99.9% of the members are older and retired! Watching it made something explode in my mind, “Retired folks just like us do motorhomes”! I knew that of course, but the video really put it into perspective. This is done by people like us who are our age, there is great power in that for me because I know if they can do it, so can we!

We don’t have to reinvent the wheel, you guys already did it!

I look forward to hearing from you and by the way. Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

44 Replies

  • bid_time wrote:
    Rent one for a while and go on an adventure. Nothing like investing a few hundred thousand $$$ in a MH and finding out your wife don't like it and won't have anything to do with it anymore.

    Also, lots of things to consider that you can flesh out as you rent - like for instance; once you park and get all set up on a site, you don't have any wheels to go to the grocery store, site seeing, out for dinner, etc. Now what?


    Renting one is not going to give her a 'homey' feeling. It's going to be void of personal things.

    When you get set up on your site you hop in your economical car to sitesee.

    OP: I would guess that if you got a motorhome your wife would have no problem making it feel like a "home". She can bring in her photos, crafts, favorite dishes and cookware, her choice of linens, perhaps her favorite footstool, afghan to get cozy under, favorite pictures to hang on the wall, a few baskets for catch-alls, etc. RVs can certainly be made to feel like a home. Think of all the full-timers out there who sold their homes and now live permanently and travel the country in their RVs. We did for 16 years and it was the greatest experience we've ever had. Plus, you can clean house in a half-hour! :)
  • You're right I should have posted it there. I'll see I can find out how to move it.
  • Mondooker wrote:

    We don’t have to reinvent the wheel, you guys already did it!


    Most of those who've already "done it" are more likely to respond to your query on the Class A Motorhomes Forum. ;)
  • Rent one for a while and go on an adventure. Nothing like investing a few hundred thousand $$$ in a MH and finding out your wife don't like it and won't have anything to do with it anymore.

    Also, lots of things to consider that you can flesh out as you rent - like for instance; once you park and get all set up on a site, you don't have any wheels to go to the grocery store, site seeing, out for dinner, etc. Now what?