The problem is in the MH. I bet you are not getting signal on those pins of the MH's 7 pin outlet.
Well, I was corrected in the fact that he's NOT USING A 7 PIN CONNECTOR. He's using a 4 pin flat. Now, in his last post, he states that, he's getting all the correct signals at the 4 pin flat, on the motor home. And, when he connects the pig tail cable from the coach, he gets all the correct same signals, from the end of that cable, where it would attach to the toad. So far, so good.
But, when connected to the toad, he LOOSES brake and turn signals but, keeps the running lights. Hmmmmmm. Mention has been made that it's possibly a GROUND problem. As many of us know, bad grounds are the most common problem for electrical issues in most vehicles.
So, in my opinion, a simple test to see if it's a bad ground between the toad side of the equasion and the coach side would be to simply go get either a set of regular battery jumper cables (since that's a simple way of CLAMPING onto something that's bare metal) or, another larger wire of some type and, clamp it between the two vehicles. That would provide your ground.
As for diodes to "isolate" the coach away from the toad, NEVER done that. I've wired a whole bunch of toads, utilizing the stock tail light bulbs in the process and, never used diodes for that purpose. I use them to isolate the rest of the toads electrical system, but not the coach. I've never had any issues with back-feeding the coach. But, I guess it's a preference thing. If you feel the need for them, then by all means, install them.
As for the OP, this is a bit of an odd one for sure. They work with another vehicle hooked to the input cable but, not with the coach hooked to it. This will be interesting to see/find the solution.
Scott