If the OP was confused when he wrote this post, he sure should be more confused now. :) IMO, Canada has it right...no one can drive a vehicle with air brakes unless they understand them. That being said, the OP needs to familiarize himself with what he has and then how they work. Obviously he's NOT describing his braking system but rather an engine retarder, an exhaust brake or an engine brake. All do the same thing, more or less, but are separate from the system that stops your coach.
To the OP. While all three are retarders, they differ in how they work. First thing you need to do is determine what type of braking assistance YOUR coach has. It will be one of the above listed three. They all work to slow your coach, hence they are brake ASSISTANTS, not brake systems. Your air brakes stop your coach, these simply help slow it down. An exhaust brake closes the exhaust temporarily causing back pressure in your system which will slow the coach. It is a valve assembly attached in your exhaust system. You should be able to see it. An engine brake is an assembly INSIDE your engine. You won't be able to see it. When operated, it aligns your engine's exhaust valves making the engine a power absorbing air compressor. Low aligns three exhaust valves and high aligns all six. Below is a link to how it works. An engine brake will provide the most efficient retardation of your coach. The third operates in conjunction with your transmission. It's important to know which one is on your particular coach. Finally, be sure to check out the information provided by Greg above. I've provided a clicky for you. Good luck...Dennis
Engine Brake clickyCanada's Air Brake Manual