Just an update, I have the furnace up and running! In case anyone in the future runs into this same problem and finds this thread, here's an update about how I made a replacement pilot gas line with correct fittings.
My solution:
I pirated the gas pilot line from this Dometic pilot assembly I bought from Amazon:
Dometic pilot assembly with some but not all correct partsIt was an unknown and a gamble of 40 bucks. The fitting for the Robertshaw gas valve end fit correctly, but the smaller, pilot burner end fitting didn't. So, I had to figure out how to solve that issue next.
The small fitting at the pilot burner end of the gas pilot line, it turns out is a special fitting called a
breakaway compression fitting. This might help when searching for a replacement fitting. I figured that out by stumbling across this excellent video:
gas pilot line break away fitting installationThe video shows the larger fitting at the gas valve end, but it would be the same for the smaller fitting at the pilot burner end (the fitting is just smaller).
I visited the fantastic, old-school RV shop that is unfortunately about 1-1/2 hours away from me, and was given one of these fittings by the helpful dude there. I unfortunately neglected to take a photo or any measurements of it, but it looked more or less like one of these in these links:
breakaway compression fitting link 1breakaway compression fitting link 2Notice on the Resideo site that they can be had in a few different lengths. Not sure what length the one I got from the RV shop was, didnโt measure it but it was just a little longer than the factory one. It did work, though. If you have your old fitting sitting there in your hand, you could measure that.
Once I was back home, I cut off the end of the new Dometic gas pilot line that didn't fit, and installed the new-to-me correct fitting on in it's place. You have to be really careful and slow cutting this tubing with a small pipe cutter, because it's so soft - you'll easily crush it or even bend it out of round. I inserted a small finishing nail into the open end of the tubing to help support it's shape while cutting - another awesome suggestion from the helpful dude at the old RV shop. Seriously, these kind of places are like gold mines for those of us with old stuff.
I have since found a product listing that *might* have the correct fittings on each end, but since the description is poor it's hard to say for sure:
AO Smith pilot tubing with fittingsAnyway, once I had the pilot tubing built up, I carefully bent it into shape, installed it into the furnace using a very sparing amount of gas line pipe dope (the oil referenced in the video above didn't work for me, to seal the fittings fully - remember to leak test at pressure!) and voila, it lives.
Thanks for all the help, and I hope that this thread helps someone else at some point.