Jimmy,
Dollars to donuts that is a Thetford valve. It should be held in place by 4 screws and be easily removed. Parts are available, but they are very proud of them. Don't order from Thetford unless you have a lot of time. They are real bad at shipping promptly - even when they already have your money. Just get to any good RV supplier and tell them you need the rebuild kit for a Thetford 3" valve. (Try Vintage Trailer) It will work unless that valve is old enough to be the stainless back side. I would doubt that. Unfortunately, all the newer valves use a different bolt spacing.
I do not believe that the T was a Thetford product. The mated flange is definitely not theirs. It is also not Valtera. That being the case, I don't think you have a lot of choice here. What I would do (fortunately, I don't have to), is get a Valtera or other common bayonet flange, then measure to see if it will fit on with the existing ears are removed. Then, carefully saw off the ears and glue the new flange over the old. This may require that you trim the OD of the remaining plastic. I don't know what tools you have available, so I hesitate to suggest a method.
Matt
Matt & Mary Colie
A sailor, his bride and their black dogs (one dear dog is waiting for us at the bridge) going to see some dry places that have Geocaches in a coach made the year we married.