Stepping back and looking at both problems it reads like you lost house 12VDC power. The fridge needs 12VDC as control power while the generator needs house 12VDC to spin the starter. Have you lost anything else in the house? Ceiling lights, water pump, tank level indicators?
If my guess is right start the engine and set for a high speed idle. Wait a minute then press and hold the AUX START switch try and start the generator. If this works once the generator is running you should regain house 12VDC via the 120VAC/DC converter charger (actually you should regain house power when you press the AUX START switch). Won't fix the problem of why no power from the house batteries but will get you back up and allow you to work the problem and keep the fridge and coach cool.
2006 Hurricane 31D built on a 2006 Ford F53