That is a tough one.
Yes, give NYC as wide a berth as possible.
295 through NJ is surprisingly easy, depending on time of day.
The other way is to skirt around Philly to the west then come down the DELMARVA and VA Beach over the CBBT, an experience all by itself. Where else can you drive 60' under the ocean?
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