Lady_Katie,
Based upon your
Is this completely ridiculous? thread, I would recommend that you FIRST find a ready-built, used RV which has a usable floor plan for your needs.
First and foremost for my reasoning is that this will be the least expensive option should a.) you decide you can make full-timing work for your family and need to sell the rig to build your "dream RV" or b.) you decide living full-time will not work as you had hoped and you need to sell your RV.
Either way, if you need to sell your RV, a custom unit you built will probably NOT be desirable by anybody. So whatever you put into it, will probably be lost. If you do build your own unit, you also have to be aware of all the weight limits and proper balance. Can you prove to a prospective buyer that was done? Or that electrical & plumbing was done to acceptable standards, let alone code?
I read all of the posts in your other thread and really have some concerns that this option is not going to be all you expect it to be. You're contemplating leaving a 1,700 sq. ft. home with two kids for 240 sq. ft. of trailer with limited storage. Where will the kids keep all of their toys? Games, bikes, sporting equipment, etc.? Where will you keep all of their clothes?
If you feel "trapped" in your current home, then I'd recommend you keep the house, buy a usable trailer, and take every opportunity to go camping in it. Better yet, find a campground nearby so work obligations can still be met, and get a seasonal site. Everyone lives in it the entire season and see how that goes. This will help show if you really can live in the limited amount of space needed, yet you'll be close enough to keep tabs on your current house. If things work out for you, then you have your answers and you can work to build your ideal RV and sell your house. If things don't work out, unload the RV and figure out your new "next step".
You mentioned you didn't like the maintenance you had to do on your house. Well, the RV will have all the issues your house has and more. Bouncing "your house" down the road creates all sorts of problems too. The difference is you (or hubby) or whoever tries to fix them, doesn't usually have the benefit of a workshop area full of tools to make the repair. So if you then have to rely on a mobile RV tech, you'll be paying dearly for their service.
You also mentioned you didn't like the idea of having to have a truck to tow a fifth wheel. I can empathize with you on that, BUT, since you're looking for full-time use, the fifth wheel provides MUCH more storage than a trailer, and I would think that would trump the lack of desire to drive a truck.
In other words, you WILL have to make compromises.
🙂I'm not trying to completely dissuade from your pursuits, but I think you need to test the waters before diving in head first. You mentioned "being picky" and that, in my opinion, does not always go hand-in-hand with the RV'ing lifestyle. Being able to "settle" and "compromise", in my opinion, guarantees a greater chance of happiness in the RV lifestyle. I've seen a lot of people on these forums over the years, and there have definitely been some who have found out that RV'ing is not for them. Some learned this in a very expensive way.
Anyway, I still think getting an RV and a seasonal site nearby would be a great first step for your family. In fact, sometimes seasonal sites are available with an RV already on it. If things don't work out, you just sell the site next season. But at least you'll being taking a step to see if your idea has some merit before committing to a plan which might end in disaster.
Good Luck in your pursuits. I hope you find the happiness you seek.
~Rick
P.S. Homeschooling IS great and I would fully encourage you to do that!
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Rick, Gail, 1 girl (27-Angel since 2008), 1 girl (22), 2 boys (23 & 20).
2001 Honda Odyssey, Demco Aluminator tow bar & tow plate, SMI Silent Partner brake controller.