For the five or 6 years that I have been RV'ing, for convenience, I would sometimes dump my tanks into my home septic system upon returning home. While I have felt pretty comfortable doing this, I have also wondered if there was any potential for damage (to my home septic system) from this practice. So, when the tanks were especially full, I would sometimes throttle the flow so as to only allow part of the tank(s) to dump at a time. Give it a moment or two to settle, then dump some more.
Today, when I had my septic tank pumped (I do it every 5 years), I took the opportunity to raise this question with the pumper.
I learned that IF chemicals are used in the RV holding tank AND this dumping is done frequently (i.e.; > 12 times per year), then over time, these chemicals will build up in the septic tank enough that they start to liquefy its contents. If the contents of the tank liquefy (they are supposed to separate; with solids at the bottom, water in the middle, and a scum layer on top), then this "slurry" makes its way past the outlet sanitary tee (located in the center of the tank and designed for only water to pass) and into the drain field. On the other hand, if this dumping only happens a few times per year (6 to 8), then it was his opinion that it "isn't likely" to cause a problem.
When I told the pumper that I don't use chemicals at all, he responded that I "can dump as much, as fast, and as often as I want". The inlet tee will slow down the flow so as not to cause turbulence in the septic tank and the contents will be digested by the natural process in the tank (not liquefied as the RV chemicals "eventually" do).
This made sense to me so I wanted to share it with the RV community.
Happy dumping.