1 if you read about the tires, they can take static load like 5 times rated load, so you can put block only under 1 tire, but that will give you extra flex. Your call
2. each system is different. I had straight chuck for decades as this was the best for all dualies, but it will not fit on new Ford. Extensions can be additional source of troubles, so stay away from them unless you have TPMS.
3.don't think wider duallies are option, but you can find super-dual or whatever they call it.
4. same pressure. You can buy pressure equalizer, what IMHO combined with added TPMS is the best of all worlds.
I own duallies for years, but lately it is my primary vehicle. Looking at SRW truck, I am getting impression that it is unfinished.
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