If you can get into the collar with a dremel or electric hack saw, cut some slices in the old pipe in several spots so you can pry the old pipe away from the collar.
I wouldn't worry too much about a diffuser on yours. Just get something that points it away from your toad. My coach has DEF and runs much hotter, so a diffuser, spaced away from the tip is more important.
If you need the diffuser, buy a 4" or 5" chrome tip with a bend and cut a section out of it length wise, so that it'll bend and clamp around your 3" tip
Don & Mary
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