I just went through all of this myself. I have a 1999 holiday rambler endeavor diesel pusher. It did not come with the required wiring for brake controller. It was not pre-wired whatsoever. I had to wire the entire thing myself, which was quite a bit of work.
I had to run two wires from the front of the dash, through the firewall, and down the entire frame rail. It was a pain in the rear. I also had to find a power source up front for the controller and install a 7 pin connector out back. It was a big job but it's done now and I have been towing my big trailer trouble free.
My advice is to call the manufacturer that built the RV and get a tech on the phone. That's what I did, and they were able to tell me that my coach did not come with any trailer brake wiring.
Some of them come pre-wired and are labeled. They would be able to tell you exactly where the wires are located, if they are there.
1999 Holiday Rambler Endeavor 38'. Cummins ISB 275, allison 3060.
Toys pulled: 22x8.5 open deck PJ flatbed. 5200# axles. Sand car with ecotec engine. Multiple 1980's ATC's(3 wheelers). We're duners!