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Planning Cross country trip

Effy
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I know variations of this have been asked in the past but here goes:

We are in the initial stages of planning a cross country trip from NC to CA and back. Something we've always wanted to do. We have a few points on the list thus far : Nashville, (we may pick up a family member in Tampa), Tempe (to visit family), Grand Canyon, Redwood forest CA, Yosemite, etc. I know that's pretty generic and light itinerary but like I said we are in the initial stages and we plan to add a few more stops. Son is 13 so most of this is for his benefit. Although we seek out more natural landmarks than entertainment ones.

In generic terms, how long should we give ourselves for a trip of this nature? I have a job so I can't more than 2 - maybe 3 weeks. Some have said you need that and more, but was thinking on the lines of 2 weeks. I'd rather not travel more than 6 hrs a day, and at least a day rest at destinations. Is this feasible? 6 hours a day at 60 mph = 360 miles. The 2800 coast to coast would take 7 days each way. So the drive alone would take 2 weeks. I originally thought planning a trip like this would be easy , but it's not. Balancing length of travel days, places you want to see and enough time to see them while on a tighter schedule is not as easy as I thought. Likewise we don't have much freedom on time of year either as we would need to take advantage of the summer school break.

Any advise on overall planning or must have sites to see would be helpful.
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tegu69
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NC, possibly to Tampa, then Nashville ? If I had to pay for a plane ticket myself for the family member to meet somewhere, it would probably be cheaper and save you some time for the rest of the trip. Plenty to see around GC and Utah as others have said.

dgminer
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Last year we did California to the Smoky mts and back, took a total of 6 weeks and we felt rushed at times. Did a lot of 300+ mile days, this year looking to do Utah, Yellowstone and back, 7 week no more than 200 miles a day with a lot of stops its better not to try to pack too much into a trip, you want to have fun

aviator
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Effy,

We purchased our first RV in 1968. We have driven to and from Alaska five times. Crossed the country many times. We are in our thirteenth year of fulltime. I know time is of the essence, but believe me your family will enjoy the trip if it is not rushed. I would not attempt this in less than six weeks. Get the 13 year old into the planning effort, he should enjoy travel for many more years. Thirteen years old is too young to not be in family activities. You want this to be memorable in a happy way not the other.
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two_travelers
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Agree with others who have posted that 2 -3 weeks is not enough. You'll spend the whole time driving and not seeing anything. We did an around the US trip and took 3 months and covered 8,000 miles. It's a great big country with lots to see. 50mph average is a good number.

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Drive all night on interstates if you want to make it to Cali. After Grand Canyon, go up to Moab, Utah and see Arches/Canyonlands, then down to Bryce and Zion. Then over to Yosemite. You'll be exhausted though. On your way back stop in Memphis to see Graceland if you're an Elvis fan! I understand the "avoid the interstate" thing, but on your timeline, nothing like setting the cruise and just driving.

msmith1199
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I'm a driver and there is nothing I love more than to be out on the road in my motorhome. But having said that, there is very little chance I'd plan a cross-county and back trip to be done in two weeks. I once went from California to Oshkosh Wisconsin and back and we did that in two weeks. But even then we left California on a Thursday after work and pulled into Oshkosh on Sunday around noon doing nothing but driving and sleeping all the way. We went to the airshow for a few days and then over the next week and a couple of days worked our way back to California through South Dakota and Wyoming.

If I wanted to go coast to coast and actually see things along the way, I wouldn't do it unless I had at least four weeks, probably more. If I only had two weeks and I wanted to actually stop and see things, versus seeing things out of the front windshield, I probably would stay within 1000 miles of my start point. Probably make a big circle.

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Busskipper
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Effy wrote:
Thanks everyone for the well thought out suggestions............... Time to head West as I have only been to AZ once on business and my son has never been at all and really wants to see the grand canyon and parts of UT. (I would love to bike slick rock).


Again I wanted to sincerely thank everyone for your responses. Nothing snide or critical just a bunch of well thought out and helpful comments.


Having done what you are trying to do and Owning- Running my own Business - I was always in the same predicament (N0 Time in the Summer) but we made enough trips by Plane or RV that one son now lives in Colorado - so it can be done - Son's first trip to the Grand Canyon was to the North Rim on the way to LA for his College Junior internship - June 1, 1999 6" of snow on the Red Rocks of the Grand Canyon - just BEAUTIFUL - I still remember it like it was yesterday.

Couple of things to keep in mind - HOT - in the summer in Utah - Hotter in Arizona - (Hiking up in the Grand Canyon at 100 degrees + is unforgettable - but not memorable) - So look at including a little time at altitude to Cool Off. (San Juan's of Colorado stand out) Problem is there is just so much to see and so little time, so figure out how to stretch the time at the areas/locations you choose.

What does the Family enjoy when on these trips? Hikes? Bikes? Fishing? Swimming? Sitting? --- picking the right locations and weather for the Favorite activities will be critical to success.

With your toad you might be able to do some Mild 4x4 trails - Alpine Loop - and others in the area - name dropping Ouray - Telluride - Mesa Verde - Trout Lake - Silverton - Durango - Black Canyon of the Gunnison - Gunnison - Crested Butte - Buena Vista - Twin Lakes - .......................................... Utah - CGNP - Page - Lake Powell - Antelope Canyon - North Rim - Zion - Rt 12 -Kodachrome - Bryce - Goblins -.......................... I think you get the idea.

Continue the Quest for the Great RV Trip and keep us posted,
Busskipper
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mike_brez
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Effy wrote:
I get it folks and I questioned the feasibility of this trip as we were talking about it as a family. I would love to allocate 3 mos but at this time I can't. At the same time I know my 13 yr old won't want to travel with us to see redwoods or the grand canyon much longer. Have to see if I can squeeze 3 weeks but my work is very demanding and it will be tough. That will also use up almost all my paid vacation for the year. But I get it.


Effy your kid(s) may surprise you. I have two boys 22&25. My older one lives and works in Vt near the Canadian border. If we are out camping and he has time off he meets us to camp with us. While we was living home he always had the choice of staying home or coming with us and he always wanted to go.
We were on a tight schedule two years ago and I wanted to see Tennessee. I did a marathon run from Ct to Pigeon Forge Tennessee non stop.
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Effy
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Thanks everyone for the well thought out suggestions. You have given me a lot to think about. I agree CA is probably out for this trip. Working the way I do we usually take "destination" trips so it's a mad rush, get there and stay put. So this is different in that we want to enjoy the trip as much as the destinations. I like the AZ,UT,CO circuit. We used to live in MD so we've pretty much exhausted the Smithsonian, Battlefields, caverns and mountains and beaches in the PA,MD,WV,VA area. Time to head West as I have only been to AZ once on business and my son has never been at all and really wants to see the grand canyon and parts of UT. (I would love to bike slick rock).

I am dying to go to No CA but I agree that perhaps CA, OR and WA are saved for another trip.

Again I wanted to sincerely thank everyone for your responses. Nothing snide or critical just a bunch of well thought out and helpful comments.
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OutdoorPhotogra
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I've made three one-way cross country trips in conjunction with work relocations. All were coast to coast and I've taken the southern, middle, and northern routes. I had 2-3 weeks for one way trips. I agree your plan isn't doable but I think you realize that by now. I read the entire thread because I hate when folks post without reading other's suggestions. I was going to offer a similiar plan to busskipper.

Drive hard for two and a half days (including leaving after work) and then see AZ/CO/UT. From the Grand Canyon, you are at least another 14 hours to the Redwoods. Catch Grand Canyon, Four Corners, maybe time for Arches, pick and choose in CO.

Part of my rationale is you likely have seen or can see the Eastern States on another trip. Get to the West and enjoy a new part of the country. In the two cross-countries that I was towing and camping, I found two days hard driving was fine but then I needed a break. We did some half days of driving with tourism and 3-4 days at our National Park destinations. Some will say you can't do something like Yellowstone in 4 days but while working, it beats not going at all.

Have the family list ten destinations in a three state area and then compare lists. Maybe you can visit everyone's top choice and then negotiate from there. I think a day or two at the Grand Canyon is sufficient compared to Yosemite that needs 2-3 minimum (not this trip) and Yellowstone/Grand Teton where 4 is probably a minimum.

If you can get the search feature to work, there is a a lot of info on here from folk's planning posts and trip logs.
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BUB1988
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We have been traveling with the grandkids for the past 6 years. Their ages now is 10 - 16. We live outside of Tampa and travel up the coast normally to Upstate NY, or not. The trip usually takes us about 18-21 days. We stay at least 2 nights at each spot and work attractions in during the non travel days. Normal drive per day is 250-300 miles as most trips are about 2000 miles. As others have said the trip you are discussing would be much more like 6 weeks at the low end. With our grandkids all day driving for days at a time are not very enjoyable, especially for a 13 year old. Since you live in NC there are so many great trips you could do within the two weeks. I don't know what your son likes but there are great destinations on this coast: Air and space museum(Smithsonian) in DC, Alabama an 11 story motorcycle and car museum (Barber Motorsports), in West Virginia Cass Scenic Railroad, Pennsylvania War re-enactments(Gettysburg), Historic Settlements Virginia (Jamestown Settlement). The list can go on and on. If you want to travel further there are caverns in either the Pan Handle of Florida or Up State New York. We try to get the input from the kids to make sure they keep wanting to go with us:)
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et2
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About 8 years ago we planned a trip from MI to Yellowstone / Mt Rushmore / back. We did it in about 15 days. Drove 6-7 hours each day - 4 out 4 back. We stayed at campground just off the highway at the 360 - 400 miles per day route. This gave us about 7 days. We saw what we needed at Yellowstone in 4 days ( yes could have spent more). 3 days in the Mt Rushmore area.

We enjoyed the trip across the country as much as the destination. There is no way at my age now I could drive 4 days those miles. I would be worn out.

Sounds like your a little younger. Might work for you. But doing a longer drive each day would probably get you more time at your destinations. To keep driving with no downtime isn't any fun.

If I had the time to do that trip over again it would be 3 or 4 weeks. But if you have others to spread the driving around, and a young man to see the great country. I'd find a way to make it work.

Busskipper
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Effy wrote:
DrewE wrote:
Can you get a leave of absence at your job? Many places might be willing to work something out for what is basically a once in a lifetime trip. They may also be willing to let you carry over some time from year to year for a special occasion even if it's not standard policy. It never hurts to inquire. (They may also be rigid and inflexible....)

Two weeks is not enough to drive to the west and do anything and drive back, IMHO. I can drive in a car from Vermont to San Diego over the course of five days, but those are long days and without stopping to see anything on the way and, of course, in a car that makes better time than an RV. Even in that case, two weeks (plus a "free" weekend) would mean a grand total of six days in California.

If the school is willing to send along work, possibly you could arrange to have five or six weeks around New Year's by combining vacation from two years and getting four or five or six weeks at a spell. That does rather limit the practicality of seeing some areas in the north, such as Yellowstone.

Your 13 year old might surprise you with the desire to travel as time goes on, too. I was once 13 years old (a fair few years ago), but I'm planning on taking a long cross-country RV trip with my mother this summer. I would have jumped at the opportunity at pretty much any age.


In the banking industry - at least the 22 years I've been in it - they aren't very flexible with respect to time off. Any carryover - and it's very limited what can be carried - has to be used by 3/1. A leave of absence could be approved via HR, it's just the nature of the work that I do I simply can't be out of pocket that long. I manage a division that handles data for all N America to support AML and anti terrorism operations. Despite trying to maintain 40 hours, my job is demanding enough that I get pulled in all directions about 60-70 hours/week. Being out of pocket too long imposes a risk to projects and the OCC mandates we work under. The bank I work for is great, it's the projects and demands that make it impossible short of coughing up a lung or taking a bullet.

Wife and I talked and thought we could do 2 things. Try and weasel 3 weeks, or shorten the distance of the trip - or both. Maybe just to the grand canyon and back.

We also have another trip planned this year to head back home to bike the entire C&O canal. That will take 4 days although half could be done on a weekend.

I saw a recommendation to rent an RV once in CA and while I appreciate the suggestion, don't think I want to rent an RV while I own one. I've been in a cruise America Rv - no thanks.


Effy,

Two weeks and California do not compute.

Colorado -is an 1,800 mile drive - in an RV you will not average more than 50 mph - that's 36 hours of driving and you just get there, not to the Fun (although it's not much further)

Couple of thoughts come to mind if you only get two weeks;

Leave right after work on Friday drive a good 6-8 hours on pure adrenaline spend the night in Wal*Mart - get up and go another long day say 10 - 12 hours (Your butt will be sore - trust me) with this you could be just 12 hours out of Colorado, arriving with time to get a site settle in relax and recharge for the week.

Next really set your destinations and Activities - Know What YOU- And FAMILY want to SEE and DO.

Spend the next 7 days enjoying what you wanted to do - Find a location that will have enough to do for 5 days - Fly back to work for the week - get in a little late monday work late all week fly out a little early on Friday - Catch up with the family enjoy the next 6 days then start the drive back.

Southwest and Frontier have good low fares to Denver and Salt Lake City, Maybe even Bozeman? (I guess you can tell I'm pushing you to Yellowstone and not the GC)

IMHO, this will/might just work - you get two 9 day periods with the Family - they get 23 days away - and it almost looks possible to make this a Vacation not an RV race out and back. (you still get the race you just have a little more time)

Maybe one week in Wyoming and one in Colorado with the work week in Denver or SLC or GC for that matter, just gives you a little more of an option.

Give it a thought - Crazy but .............................

JMHO,
Busskipper
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cwdavis
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Effy,

A suggestion: go to New Mexico and Colorado; save the far west for another day. Years ago, I took the only 1 month off from my work I ever took before retiring, to take our son on a western trek (from Chapel Hill, NC). We drove US 40 by car to Santa Fe, met up with my parents and tent-camped along with their little 5th wheel. In that month, we did Santa Fe, Bandolier Natl Mon, Taos, Chaco Canyon, Mesa Verde, Durango, Coal Mine Pass to Montross, and then headed east on US 50, diverting, via Leadville, up to Boulder, Rocky Mt. Natl Park, then home, via US 64. It was a most fabulous trip for us -- we had plenty of time to see each place at a reasonably unhurried pace, and you could easily shorten the route to 2 - 3 weeks.

One of the things we really enjoyed was being on the Colorado Plateau in August -- every day about 2:00 we had an afternoon thunder shower. It's their monsoon season, and the weather is fabulous!

I think the key is to plan a trip you can enjoy without hurrying, for the period of time you have available; don't rush it -- it's supposed to be a vacation!

Bon voyage!
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