X 2 on getting rid of the diode isolator.
Your issue will be undercharging, not overcharging, as your voltage regulator is likey allowing only high 13v when it and the alternator are hot.
AGMs want to be brough to 14.4 to 14.7ish until amperage tapers to very low numbers. 13.7 will slow amperage the battery accepts by about 2/3, and your diode based isolator knocks off at least 0.5v from whatever the alternator is allowed to make.
Get a continuous duty solenoid and trigger it with the ignition, and hope the solar can hold the battery in mid 14's until the AGm is full after you are done driving. SAve the big finnned heatsink from the diode based isolator, it will be good for something somewhere, but not for isolating your house battery.
The Mopar voltage regulator can be replaced with one that is adjustable voltage. My 89 dodge is modified as such, I can choose any voltage between 12.8 and 15.3 by twisting a dial on my dashboard nect to my digital voltmeter and digital ammeter.
The product below has the voltage dial on its backside:
https://www.ebay.com/itm/NEW-ADJUSTABLE-HD-EXTERNAL-VOLTAGE-REGULATOR-CHRYSLER-DODGE-PLYMOUTH-1970-8...This is basically plug and play^^
If you are really worried about overcharging, or overheating your alternator when your battery is depleted and can suck up everything your alternator can make, set it to 13.8v.
Have a 3 hour drive and need to get as much juice as possible back into it the depleted battery, set it at 14.7v, and drive 30mph plus for underhood airflow, do not idle parked for more than 5 to 10 minutes as alternator can overheat feeding a depleted AGM over adequate thickness copper..
The VR casing needs to be well grounded to battery (-), but you could mount it backwards to the firewall, or put it on some velcro, and have a grounded wire running to battery negaticve from casing, and easily change voltage with a small screwdriver. Especially if you have a helper to rev engine and yell what voltage it is as you twist dial, and tak note of its position for 14.7 and for 13.8.