What is the brand of the Monitor Panel? If it's a KiB, that company used to publish a lot of support info. Seems they've "cleaned up" their web, I couldn't find much.
Try gOOgle "kib monitor panel wiring diagram k-21 2f" without the quotes, you can experiment from there, changing that search a little here and there.
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2003 Jayco Escapade 31A on 2002 Ford E450 V10 4R100 218" WB