It's not uncommon on longer units. If the kitchen is at the back and the bathroom is at the front, the plumbing to run to one tank is a hassle. Plus, you generally fill more of the gray tank than black tank if you are on a water only site.
But based on the below, you only have 1 gray tank:
https://library.rvusa.com/brochure/denaliliterature112rev313web.pdf
You might try a second experiment. Run the kitchen sink to see if the other tank fills per the panel reading.
Most likely, they use the same control panel for all their models. Our non-slide toy hauler has a position (no switch) listed as "slide out" on the panel.
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