komiller118, I am in the midst of a dead converter myself. A new one is on the way. (see my post
MagneTek 3240 replacement)
Have you talked with Randy at Best Converter yet? Apparently he is very knowledgeable. I went with his recommendation to buy a new PowerMax Boondocker for our TT.
It certainly sounds like you might have a dying converter. Not that I'm an expert now, but when mine first started showing signs, the lights would dim. Turning off a light or two would cause it to stop at first, but within a couple days, it died quickly.
Yours showing a significant voltage drop with only one light turned on sounds similar to mine.