Buckel,
I get accosted about this subject a lot. That may be because most people that know me also know that I have been a navigator all my life and I still am habitually so.
First, never leave the driveway without paper maps (charts) covering the areas you plan to or might travel. Paper still works when the lights go out. I carry them from two sources: AAA can provide a wealth of information and a USA Street Atlas from Walmart - A is less expensive than others and printed by RM, - B has a somewhat accurate listing of Walmart locations and parking situation. About AAA, if you are not members, go to a location and get someone to talk to you. Not only do they provide charts (maps), but also travel/tour directories and camping guides printed and prepared by Woodalls.
If you don't have a GPS, stay tuned.
If you have a laptop you can use to travel, then get one of the navigators like Strips and Treets or Street Alas, the GPS that goes with it (SA can us any, but S&T not so much) and a way to power it from the vehicle power. This can be your travel director. (It is neat to have a big map screen with a "You Are Here" on it. Go to the Discovery Owners site and get the overlays for just about anything of interest to RVers. Learn to use the software by planning trips or even re-planning trips you have made. This alone will take a lot of the stress out of traveling.
When you get started, consider a stand alone GPS, but I have never successfully (in my opinion) used one for planning. The way we use ours now is very simple, at the start of the day, the navigator loads the driver's GPS with the day's destination or route (this can be a bear if off route stops are planned). It is also handy as we travel in Canada and so we reset that one for KPH to limit confusion.
Everything you have asked for (and more) is covered in the above and it all at your finger tips all the time.
Matt
Matt & Mary Colie
A sailor, his bride and their black dogs (one dear dog is waiting for us at the bridge) going to see some dry places that have Geocaches in a coach made the year we married.