Never, ever give the money to the seller!!! But having said that, I've never handled a private party transaction that large so I don't know the best way to handle it. I do know there have been discussions of using escrow companies on here. If you are a cash buyer, you may not need to add the expense of an escrow company, and you could personally work with the sellers lender and wire transfer money directly to them. But if you give the money to the seller, and for whatever reason they don't pay off the loan, you'll be on the losing end of that one as the bank's interest will come first. And if you call the police, they are going to tell you it's a civil problem and you have to sue the seller for the money back.
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