Did you order directly from Blue Ox, or from one of the many companies that sell their products?
Your issues sound like problems with the company shipping the stuff to you. Not necessarily Blue Ox's fault, unless you ordered directly from them? May want to just find another company to work through for their products. Blue Ox makes great stuff IMO, you may just need to find another company to work through for ordering their products.
Whenever I order stuff like this (base plates, etc), I always order it through
Hitch Source. Never had a problem with them, they've been great every time I ordered from them. Free shipping on anything over $100, very reasonable prices, very helpful staff whenever I've had to call them...I highly recommend them.
Will and Cheryl
2021 Newmar Baystar 3014 on F53 (7.3 V8) Chassis ("Brook")
2018 Jeep Wrangler JK ("Wilbur")