Well just from the pictures, if the hitch did it you would have felt the trailer move as in a sudden impact like hitting a non-moving vehicle. The marks on the area that was peeled back seem to be higher than the hitch plate. My guess is that it was hit by something with a lot of force to do that much damage. I am also guessing that if it was the hitch plate you would have felt it while towing the trailer home. But,unless the dealer is very disreputable, I cannot see them trying to hide this kind of damage that is so obvious.
Without being there to get a really good look at the scratches and the point of impact it is hard to tell. If the repair place is not too far away, ask the service manager to stop by and look at it, I would not want to pull it back to them as it will damage you hitch plate.
This is a tough one, but if pressed for an guess I would say forklift. JMO
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