Could be the check valve in hot outlet nipple on backside of WH tank (top) is plugging up and restricting flow.
Could be your shower fixture........lots of them have flow restrictors built into handle or head (some can e removed/some have to be drilled out to enlarge hole)
The OEM propane heating is more efficient and has quicker recovery time for heating water. Even better than an OEM electric element. BUT way better than that added heat rod. They are very small wattage and have long recovery times.
Turn them both on for maximum heat recovery.
And RV WHs have to heat the water to high temps (140*F) in order to provide the nominal 6 (or 10) gallons------by mixing cold water to really hot water to extend hot water usage and be delivered by a smaller package
Is it time for your medication or mine?
2007 DODGE 3500 QC SRW 5.9L CTD In-Bed 'quiet gen'
2007 HitchHiker II 32.5 UKTG 2000W Xantex Inverter
US NAVY------USS Decatur DDG31