OP---"We mostly boondock so I think all I need is SOC. (Real solar and lithium batteries are coming, but not quite here.) Do I run the generator yet? Time to go to a hookup site? What else matters??"
With flooded batts you don't need a monitor at all to do that. All you need is your "morning voltage" while camping. Pretend that is a "resting voltage" (take it when the furnace is not on and before the solar jacks up the voltage) and get your SOC from that.
Observe your daily change--with no solar, this will be fairly steady. Let's say you want to stay above 50% SOC and you pick 12.1v for that SOC (same as Trojan does) You start with 12.7 and next day it is 12.5, then 12.3. So you know that tomorrow it will be 12.1 and time to recharge the bank.
If it is 12.4, 12.2, and you figure 12.0 tomorrow, you can recharge "early" today or go another day and recharge at 40% SOC (which will not kill your batts)
I used to do that with the four lights on the range hood and no DMM even. I noticed that after a while the light would be green but go to yellow when the furnace came on but would bounce back to green when the furnace stopped. Then it stayed yellow no bounce back, and could go red if furnace came on and some lights. That was the signal to recharge the batts, since a DMM comparison showed yellow was about 12.2v.
I then got a Trimetric, more as a toy than as a need. But then got AGMs and now it is vital. Need the ammeter to tell when down to 0.5a/100AH (proper full for AGMs) and the voltage to know at proper Vabs to hold at while amps taper to that amount.
So until you get AGMs you only need the four lights on the range hood monitor, or else splurge on a DMM for $10, but you don't need a monitor at all.
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