If you are having trouble keeping the fridge lit while driving, tape up the first few inches of vent in the access panel near the burner. I had to do this on my first camper, worked fine after that.
I am going through the charging exercise now. With the existing "camper charge" wiring in the 7 pin cable, I never saw more than about 10 amps charge, quickly reducing to less than 8. I have added a heavy charge cable and connectors and a charge controller (Balmar Digital Duo Charge). Now I can get up to about 16 amps charge initially, but again it quickly drops off. At 16 amps, there is about 0.2V drop in the cabling, another 0.4V through the charge controller. The Ford alternator set point seems to be 14.0V stone cold sagging to 13.8V as it gets warm. That leaves only about 13.2V to charge the AGM house batteries - not enough to get the job done in a reasonable time. 14.4V would be ideal. AGM batteries want to be fully charged periodically or they will die young.
So now I am thinking I might replace the charge controller with a voltage controlled relay (there is little danger of overcharging with the alternator set so low). That might help some. Or use a DC-to-DC battery charger. Mastervolt makes them, it is a boost-buck converter with a three stage charge controller built in. Expensive though. Another possibility is to add the second alternator (optional on a Ford Superduty) with a proper external regulator and use that just to charge the house batteries.
Bigfoot 10.4E, 2015 F350 6.7L DRW 2WD, Autoflex Ultra Air Ride rear suspension, Hellwig Bigwig sway bars front and rear