I want to bring this back up one last time if that's ok. First, thanks to everyone that helped me and provided useful and practical advice. Also to several of you that PMd me. It's given me things to think about and encouragement I can make this work.
I loaded it back up today in preparation for a long weekend trip starting early Friday. I took a few more photos from a more head on perspective. I also added some Torklift stable loads (lower) and they seemed to have helped.
So here's the deal:
I am not willing to buy a different truck.
I am not willing to install a custom set of leaf springs as I do not believe I need them. I have more of a weight distribution issue that a load carrying issue. It sits pretty level as is and with the Roadmaster Active Suspension, stable loads, and the Big Wig it seems to be very much improved.
It appears that the front end of my truck does not settle down when the TC is loaded like I originally claimed. It sure looked like it, but the tape measure doesn't lie. So now seeing where my COG is pointed and relation to my rear axle it is more right on it, maybe 1/4" back from center. I was able to get it closer by removing some of the boards that I used between the TC bumpers and the front of the bed. As you can see I'm pretty close to my tail lights now. I'm using two 3/4" thick pieces of plywood to shim it back. I tried removing one but it puts that TC right on the tail light and I'm afraid it might crack it.
So the only thing I can come with is to remove the actual tail light lenses which would allow me to push the TC forward that 1 1/2" and possible help with the weight distribution. Again, that really doesn't seem practical and I'm sure I would tire of it.
I'll end my long winded post by saying it seems to drive ok like this. I really don't need to hear how I've got major issues, everything's all wrong, and I'm going to spontaneously combust going down the road and kill a bus full of children. I'm not a paranoid nutjob that worries, but I do believe in common sense. I'm not overloaded BTW, and my rear axle weight is right on the money. I'm trying to figure it all, please be patient with me and help me make the best of what I have here. Any other ideas?
This is loaded up, 25 gal water tank full, hot water heater full.
Empty rear:
Empty front:
Loaded rear:
Loaded front:
Tail light clearance:
Stance and COG decal:
2006 F250
Palomino Bronco 800