I'll try to address everyone's concerns as best I can:
We are done with towables; everyone is cramped inside the truck, even after an hour. Kids would be fine with Mega, Suburban, Expedition, etc, but wife and I can't sit for too long anymore without moving around. Motorhome gives us that freedom. Bonus; we don't have to get out to eat or use the facilities when pulling into rest stops and fighting all the bugs.
Initial costs are going to be crazy expensive, so will maintenance. However, we should come out ahead not long after purchase; plan on buying used, buying well and putting a large chunk down, maybe get out the door under $90k. For that kind of money, I would rather have a DP than a C.
Considering we will be towing, I think we will go through 2 or 3 Cs, which will be as much (or more) than an A.
Washer and dryer are a must and have yet to see a used coach without. Kids can sleep on couches, or one can use bottom bunk; top bunks convert to closet space in most coaches.
Everyone has a BH floor plan, even in the gasser line. CW up the road has a Berkshire, and I like the 1/2 bath. We met a couple who, the day prior, had purchased an Allegro red QB from a private seller, and we got to tour it. Both have their merits.
We plan on retiring early, in our 50's, due to health concerns. Even if life changes, I don't want to start the whole process again, just because I want something else; a lot of older folks get in financial trouble that way. Considering we may only have to take a 15 year loan out, we should be good even if we need to sell later on. We all know these are money pits, and I am choosing the best I can afford that I know my family can be happy with for as long as possible.
The check marks are leaning more towards a pusher at this point. Now, if we decide to just do this trip once, and part time in the future, a C will work, maybe buy a Fit or something small with decent room. However, it would have to be a really good deal, and really well cared for, to consider it.
2008 Ram 3500 SRW
2006 Salem 32SRV
***looking for a better truck this fall***