jlud,
With a few differences, we were in your situation about 10 years ago. We started looking at small hybrids to tow behind our Odyssey. We ended up with the Class A in our signature and tow the Odyssey behind us. After about 2 years of pretty extensive research and lots of recommendations from folks on this forum, we found the ideal floorplan for our use. Here we are almost 10 years later and we have yet to find another motorhome that I think would suite our needs better. (Well...there was that 45' DP with a $500k price tag I kindof liked...but that would be wayyyyy out of our price range.
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First of all, there is NO BETTER way to travel with kids than in a motorhome. Everything is available when you need it. If you hit a traffic tie up, you can use the time while your in stop & go driving for potty & lunch breaks. When the traffic clears, you just keep on rolling while everyone else is headed to the nearest rest stop. If someone needs the bathroom while we're rolling, we will allow it as long as it is safe (in my judgment) to do so.
We had contemplated a full size van with a travel trailer. Ruled it out because we figured we'd get more use out of a motorhome. We use the motorhome for day trips when we wouldn't use a TT.
The truck/fiver was never an option with four kids. Too crowded in the truck, and we have pets as well. Plus I really didn't need or want a truck.
We looked at Class C's, and almost bought one, but I was concerned that we would exceed the weight specs on it, and I know we would have. (I'm an engineer and sort of a stickler about staying within operating limits.) Since we were looking, there have been some C's built on the C5500 Kodiak chassis which had better weight numbers. But when we were looking, these really weren't available. I would recommend you look at them.
Ultimately, we chose the Class A. Our floorplan is a bit unique (for a gasser) as it has 2 sofas and a dinette. We opted for dedicated "living space" over dedicated "sleeping space". Back then, there were very few bunkhouse class A's. However, I have only seen one that I would consider (the bunks were separated from the main bedroom by the bathroom), but even that didn't have the storage spaces ours does. With 4 kids, you need LOTS OF SPACE for clothes, shoes, "baby support stuff".
I know there are some who say they couldn't live with having to make up the dinette each morning. Personally, that has NEVER been a problem with us. Bed make-up/take-down is 5-10 minutes each morning/evening once you get into the swing of things. Now the kids are older, they help.
Here's one unexpected benefit of kids sleeping up front. It gives a bit of privacy to wifey and I in the back. For whatever reason, we have had way more "adult time" in our motorhome then I had ever planned. Apparently wifey can really relax and enjoy herself when we're out...so who am I not to take advantage of an opportunity!
๐ But with the kids up front watching the TV, the AC's running and our door shut, they hear nothing. So even if we just want to watch a movie with bad language, they can't hear it.
Our rig has 12 seatbelts from the factory (3 on each sofa, 4 on the dinette, driver & passenger). Plus I added 3 across the bed in back so if I'm driving through the night, they sleep in the back and the belts keep them from rolling off if I had to stop quickly.
The view out the front window of the Class A is second to none. The kids can actually see what wifey and I do, plus our rig has a lot of windows, over each sofa and dinette, so the views out the sides are good too.
When we were at Disney World's Fort Wilderness, my brother, sister-in-law and daughter stayed with us in the rig for 4 days. We gave them the bedroom and we all slept up front. 8 people and it worked GREAT! We've slept as many as 10 with 2 dogs (golden retrievers) one time in an overnight stay at a relatives yard.
Oh, as I mentioned, we tow our Honda Odyssey. It weighs about 4,500 pounds and towing it and fully loaded to travel, we weigh in with a gross combined weight of between 25,000 - 26,000 lbs. The rig is rated at 26,000 lbs. GVWR, so we just make that.
Oh, with our crew, I figured we'd need about 2,500 - 3,000 lbs. of cargo capacity for people, food, clothes, water, tools, etc. and that seems to be about right. We tend to "pack heavy" with lots of "just in case" items. If you and your wife tend to pack lighter, you can probably get by with less. But you mentioned water. Our rig has a 75 gallon fresh water tank, so that's 600 lbs. right there.
One last thing, we did have one additional motivation for the motorhome that I hope you, or anyone else, never has to contend with. That is our oldest daughter (age 7 at the time) was diagnosed with lymphoma and had to go through 2 years of chemo. The motorhome allowed us to travel with her and visit friends and relatives that we would not have been able to do in a van/TT. While I had been contemplating the purchase of a motorhome before her diagnosis, when you learn that your child has cancer, you change your priorities. For us, the added expense of the motorhome enabling us to comfortably travel with her trumped any financial concerns. While our family and friends thought we were nuts at the time, in retrospect, they too now see that it was money worth spending. I just figured I'd add that so you can see we might not have been in a "normal" frame of mind when we made our decision. But we have never regretted the decision to go with the Class A.
๐ I could go on, but I'll let you read what I posted and if you have any specific questions, feel free to ask or send me a PM.
Good Luck in your search.
~Rick
2005 Georgie Boy Cruise Master 3625 DS on a Workhorse W-22
Rick, Gail, 1 girl (27-Angel since 2008), 1 girl (22), 2 boys (23 & 20).
2001 Honda Odyssey, Demco Aluminator tow bar & tow plate, SMI Silent Partner brake controller.