In these cases, pictures go a long way to helping see what you are up against.
I have seen several A frame failures when the A frame side rails are not stiff enough to resist the WD forces pulling down on them. When the A frame side rail twists, the A frame header back at the camper box has to resist the twisting or it starts to bend and buckle.
Again pics are really help full trying to help you on this one.
Look at the A frame header, pull a string or use a straight edge along the bottom of it. It is true straight left to right across the header? If the header starting to buckle to the front or the back of the camper?
The battery trays angles, assuming you have a battery tray made from thin welded in angle iron, are they starting to twist any? This would be left to right angles.
If you put a level on the side of the A frame rail near the WD chain or snap up area, check it before you hook with the WD. Get an idea of how vertical the side frame is. Then hitch up the WD bars and measure again in the same place. You should be able to tell by how much the bubble moves if the side rail is twisting.
You can also measure straight across from WD chain bracket to the one on the opposite side. Measure very accurately. Then hook up WD and measure again in the exact same place. If the frame is twisting, the top of the frame will become wider when the WD in hooked up as the frame is bowing out under the WD load.
Hope this helps
John
2005 Ford F350 Super Duty, 4x4; 6.8L V10 with 4.10 RA, 21,000 GCWR, 11,000 GVWR, upgraded 2 1/2" Towbeast Receiver. Hitched with a 1,700# Reese HP WD, HP Dual Cam to a 2004 Sunline Solaris T310R travel trailer.